Everything you need to know about gifting etiquette for kids’ birthdays
We’ve all been there: A birthday party is approaching, you don’t have a gift yet and you’re slightly panicking. You want to give something meaningful, but not over-the-top. Something heartfelt, but also something they actually want.
The truth is there’s a lot to consider when it comes to gifting, and knowing the appropriate etiquette can help avoid that pre-party stress.
Whether you’re hosting a kids’ bday party or your kiddo’s attending a friend’s birthday party, we’re answering your top questions about kids’ birthday gifting.
How much should I spend on a kids’ birthday gift?
When deciding how much to spend on a kids' birthday gift, aim for a range that feels comfortable for you, typically between $15 to $30. This range is considered reasonable for a child’s friend, ensuring your gift is thoughtful without being extravagant. If your child is super close to the birthday kid or you have a special relationship with the family, you might opt for the higher end of the spectrum. Remember, it’s the thought that counts! Sometimes a heartfelt card holds more value than that cool new toy everyone’s talking about.
Can I give a gift card as a birthday gift?
Absolutely! Gift cards can be a solid birthday gift, especially for older kids who may want more control over what they get. And luckily, you can easily send an eGift card with Evite! Select a card the birthday kid will love, then attach an eGift card to a top retailer like GameStop, Starbucks, Target and more! Learn more about sending eGift cards with Evite here.
When do you open presents at a kids’ birthday party?
The timing of opening presents at a kids' birthday party can vary based on the preferences of the birthday child and their parents. Here are a few common practices:
- During the party: Some families prefer to open presents in front of all the guests, often towards the end of the party. This can be exciting for everyone, as kids love seeing their gifts being unwrapped.
- After the party: Other families might choose to open gifts after the guests have left. This can help avoid any potential awkwardness or disappointment if one child's gift isn't as exciting as another's.
Regardless of when you choose to open gifts, be sure to keep track of who gifted what so you can send personalized thank you cards promptly. When the time comes to write your cards, check out our guide to writing thank you notes here.
Is it okay to not do gifts at a kids’ birthday party?
Yes, it’s perfectly okay to have a no-gift policy at a kids’ birthday party! In fact, according to our After Party report, gift-free parties are on the rise: 53% of surveyed parents said they attended a no-gift party last year. No-gift parties are a great way to minimize clutter, focus on experiences rather than material items and teach little ones about gratitude and giving. If you decide to go this route, make sure to clearly state it on the invitation to avoid any confusion.
Here are a few alternatives to typical gifting:
- Crowdfunding: Add a crowdfunding directly to your Evite invitation to gather funds for a personal cause or savings fund. Learn more about crowdfunding with Evite here.
- Charitable donations: Give guests the ability to donate to a charity of your choosing (or the birthday kiddo’s choosing!) without having to leave Evite.
- Book exchange: Ask guests to bring books instead of toys to give your little bookworm plenty to read.
And just like that, you’re ready to take on kids’ birthday gifting with confidence and tact! Planning your kiddo’s bday party? Browse kids’ birthday invitations here. Attending a bday party? Find the perfect kids’ birthday eCard here and browse plenty of awesome kids’ birthday gift ideas here.
